Welcome to Kink, etc…

Rediscovering Love & Sex at 'Forty Something' through kink, BDSM and sexual exploration.

Candid and revealing, here you'll find advice & guides, erotic photography, sex toy reviews and more.

Kinky Advice

Sex Toy Reviews

Strap-On Confidance

Refusing to be defined by my past or confined by the sexual norms of society; I embrace gender exploration, strap-on sex, domination, BDSM and all sorts of kinky pleasures. Bold and real, I share my journey of sexual self-discovery that’s spanned a lifetime. A blending of words and images, almost nothing is taboo in my bedroom and I bear it all in more than one way.

"Find yourself 

you'll find love"

Sex Worker Rights 

Sex Workers are the experts in our communities

Don't silence us. Don't speak on our behalf.


My Story

As a runaway I found myself in the French Quarter. Broke and Hungry, I took them up on the offer of a job. Little did I know, my whole world would change that day. After 10 years of working in the clubs of Bourbon St., selling myself in the dark corners and back alleys, I found the courage to break free from everything that held me there; I've found freedom.

Do You Want To Explore Strap-On Sex?

Do You Want To Feel More Confident Strapping It On and Pegging?

You've come to the right place.

Lori is an expert in all aspects of strapping it on and pegging, from the ‘hardware’ of the harness & silicone to the ‘software’ of embodiment & confidence. Lover of all things kinky, femedom enthusiast, gender fluid, feminist, confident top and eager switch; Hey, I don't like labels. You can't put me in a box .

We test all the latest strap-on gear.

It's a tough job but someone's gotta do it. 


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This year I'm focusing on these topics...

I love to write. Especially about kinky things. 

         Sometimes I write at other places online...


Thanks for reading! No, I really mean it. HUGS