the creative force behind Kink, etc…; a sex positive blogger with a passion for helping others discover the joys of sexual exploration. Rediscovering love & sex at forty something, almost nothing is taboo in her bedroom & Lori bears it all – in more than one way - through her blog. It’s a merge of words & images. Bold & real, her personal stories, award winning erotic photography, advice & guides and more, is a journey into sexual self discovery through kink & fetish.

Lori’s Topics
Flickr Photo Stream
WARNING This site contains explicit sexual themes that's for mature audiences only. +21
Kink, etc...
After 10 yrs. in the sex industry & 22 yrs. of marriage, Lori has tips, tricks and advice that can help you along your sexual journey.
Advice & Guides

Rediscovering Love & Sex at ‘Forty Something’ through kink, BDSM and sexual exploration. Here you’ll find candid and revealing ramblings, advice, dirty stories and journal entries about kink, strap-on sex, BDSM and more.

So many dicks, so little time…

Lori tests all the latest toys; strap-on gear, vibrators, men’s toys and more.

Sex Toy Reviews

Sex Toy Reviews

Shop the toys that I keep on the top of my toy box. These toys are hand chosen and endorsed by me. The toys that I love the most .. find out what they are.


Do You Want To Explore Strap-On Sex?
Do You Want To Feel More Confident Strapping It On and Pegging?
You've come to the right place
Strap-On Tool Box
As a runaway I found myself in the French Quarter. Broke & hungry, I took them up on a job offer. Little did I know, my whole world would change...
Tales From The Sex Trade
I love to write, Especially about kinky things.

Sometimes I write at other places online...

Guest Posts
Kink, etc... Reality bedroom porn. Fetish, Kink, Strap-On Sex, Femdom, Erotic Scripts & more
Lori's Fetish Clips

Smoking Fetish

Visit my Clips4Sale store to find all of my smoking fetish clips.
Smoking Fetish Clips
Pay tribute to Mistress Lori and surprise her with a new cigar to puff while she films.
Cigar Wishlist
Erotic Smoke and Vaping Photos, Fetish Smoking & tons of Vape related giveaways
Fetish Vape

Sex Toy Sales & Deals