Although I’ve recently begun to embrace the marks impact play can leave behind; I’m on the fence when it comes to a good canning. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve fantasized about Hubby standing tall with authority brandishing a trusty cane. However my idea of playing with a cane is a bit different than the typical scene.
To me a cane is a guiding tool, used to show a submissive lover your authority to guide them with. Maybe they need a bit of probing or a reminding tap; but I never want what one would typically think of a canning.
On the other hand, I adore baby canes to use during breast bondage for a good nipple spanking. Also known as Spank Sticks, these mini canes are simply perfect. Stripes, oh yes I’ve carried a few of these. I crave it, I even long for it. Feeling the firm impact instantly makes me wet. I don’t understand why this is. It makes no logical sense; but, it’s true.
Experimenting over the past few years, I’ve come to realize that ‘pain’ is a fluid word. Each person’s perception of what’s painful is different. Therefore, you’re free to choose how you define sensations. Without fear you can determine what’s pleasure or pain. Explore and play, break free of mindsets and trust yourself. For me, this journey into kink has allowed me to discover myself. What will you discover?
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