Having your lover’s tight rose bud nice and warmed up before pegging play, is often the key to ensuring an erotic experience. I know for Hubby, using small vibes to tease his tender bits makes the world of difference. It’s stimulating and helps to relax the muscles.

Simply rubbing a vibe across your lover’s manhood and perineum area is the perfect way to get things warmed up nicely. In addition, small vibes or but plugs can be inserted to help relax everything for something bigger later.

Although most any vibe will work well for external stimulation, over the past few years of testing sex toys, we’ve found a few that stand out above the rest.

So what’s in the top of our toy box? Here’s a list of our favorite ones and why.

(Not in any particular order- I could never attempt to rate them declaring what’s best)

BSoft by BSwish – Shaped perfectly to fit around the perineum area and up between his bum cheeks. BSoft is easy and comfortable to use in just about any position, it doesn’t feel awkward in your hand, it has a variety of vibration patterns and it’s rechargeable.

Life by Leaf – Great for pin-point stimulation, the Life also has vibrations over 100% of its surface area. Life is powerful, petite, made from silicone, and rechargeable. Life’s fun shape makes it perfect for his tender bits.

G-vibe by Fun Toys – Uniquely shaped, the G-vibe is great to tease both his scrotum and head/shaft at the same time. With two motors, you can use its tongues to wrap around his tender bits. Believe me, it’ll drive him crazy.

Little Cocky by Rocks-Off – Petite and shaped perfectly to pin-point stimulation, Little Cocky is great to tease his little rose bud or tub along his bits. The bullet is powerful and has lots of nice vibration options. Made from Rocks-Off exclusive silicone, it’s silky smooth and runs across his skin with very little drag.

Billy by LELO – Slender and curved slightly, Billy is ideal to warm up his p-spot. Billy has a flared base and easy to grip handle. Packed full of pattern options and rechargeable, Billy’s power is just right to get Hubby purring in no time.

Capsela by BS is Nice – Made from soft and squishy silicone, this butt plug feel great inside of you. The petite Capsel sits inside of you comfortably. In addition, it’s small base doesn’t irritate while it’s inside of you. Ideal for long term wear, this plug is great to warm things during foreplay.

Ego E4 by Jopen – Ideally shaped, the E4 is an amazing p-spot massager. Its slender shape is comfortable to insert and stays put inside of you. With two motors, this massager stimulates both the p-spot and the perineum while you play. The Ego E4 is made from silicone, powerful, and rechargeable.

Envy One by Jopen – A wonderful oversized bullet; Envy One is perfect to tease you lover’s tender bits. The length is even great to reach up between his cheeks for pin-point stimulation. Envy One is made from silicone, packed full of vibration patterns, very powerful and rechargeable.

Crystal Delights Butt Plugs – Made from Hand Blow glass Crystal Delights plugs are fun, sex, and comfortable to use. The spear shape is easy to insert and sits comfortably inside of you. The base is adorned with a crystal and looks amazing sticking out of your lover’s bum. Ideal to warm things up the base is comfortable in-between the bum cheeks when you move around.

Butt Boy by Rocks-Off – Ideal to quickly get him ready for something big, the Butt Boy’s cone shape allows you to gradually stretch things wider. Easy to insert, it’s comfortable and doesn’t have to be inserted all the way. The Butt Boy is made from silicone, has a removable bullet and works as a dual stimulator when fully inserted.

By far this isn’t an extensive list of toys. It’s simply the toys we find most enjoyable from those that we’ve tried. Do you have a toy that really shines for warming up your lover’s tight little bum? Share your kinky thoughts bellow.