Sometimes when starting down the road of pegging play, it’s hard to know what positions are best. As women we are accustomed to following the lead of her partner, taking control can be intimidating. Lacking the confidence to take control of the rhythm and thrusting, most women feel awkward.

After a few years of indulging into this kinky pleasure, I’ve found a few positions that work well and maybe they can help you too.

Missionary

In this position he lies on his back and you kneel or sit in-between his legs. A pillow can also be placed under his hips for easier access to. A great position for beginners, he can guide the dildo in and it also allows him the ability to move at his own pace. You can also be in charge of the rhythm and thrusting without feeling off balance. In addition, with his genitals exposed, extra stimulation is easy. Add a twist and try lifting his knees to his chest for deeper penetration.

Cowboy

Just like its counterpart cowgirl, he straddles you and rides. Another position that’s good for newcomers, this allows him to control the angle, depth, and pace. Facing each other, you can enjoy eye contact and communication. In addition, there’s full access to his genital. For an added twist, his position can be reversed

Doggie Style

This position is ideal to help new comers gain their confidence wielding a dong between their legs.  Because it allows you to find your center of gravity and practice hip action, you can find the right thrusting rhythm that he enjoys. When starting out he can rock back and forth, showing you what he likes. Not to mention it’s the perfect position to find your inner mistress and spank your man’s bottom or run your nails down the spine of his back. Also allows easy access to his genitals. For an added twist he can rest his shoulders on the bed allowing you to hit his prostate.

Lap Dance

This position lets him be in control. Straddling your lap and sitting back on the dong, he controls all aspects of its penetration. Let him grind away on your lap while he controls the depth, angle and speed. You sit back and enjoy the show. For an added twist, he can turn around and face you.

Upright Missionary

In this position he lies on his back with legs up in the air. You sit or kneel in-between his legs and grab his thighs for extra support or leverage. You can easily find your rhythm. Also facing each other you can read his body language to gauge how you should move.

Side Saddle

A doggie style and spooning combination, for this position he lies on his side and you kneel entering him sideways from behind. You take charge of thrusting and there’s full range of motion. This position is also perfect for men who like the feeling of being taken. Also, there’s full access to his genitals.

Tail Gate

If you enjoy rear entry, try this position. With him lying on his stomach you laying on top of him, it’s also fun for those who enjoy skin to skin contact. He can feel your breast firm and hard against his back and you can grid your vulva against the dong’s base for extra stimulation.

Spooning

Also perfect for skin to skin contact, this position allows plenty of room to touch and kiss while you play.  With him on his side, wrap your body around his and take him from behind. Although keep in mind, this position isn’t for deep penetration since your dong has farther to reach.

Flying Doggie

As you advance in your fun, try the flying doggie. Perfect for hard and fast thrusting, with this position you’re in charge. Kneel your lover before you on the edge of the bed and you stand behind. For more kinky fun, you can bend him over a chair or other furniture to take him. Can’t reach? Grab a stool or place your lover on the couch before you; a little improvising goes a long way.

Grab your dong and the lube. Strap it on and jump in. These positions should help you along your journey of exploring new pleasures. Do you have a favorite position to play in? Please do tell us and share your thoughts bellow.