My ramblings for the day.

Last night we spent a long time playing with our flogger. It was an erotic and truly stimulating experience. Before the session was over, Hubby had me weak in the knees and squirting. I was taken to a whole new level. This was the first time I ever squirted from our flogger. The wooden handle.. oooo la la.. Hubby knew how to work it just perfectly. Ok, so now you think I’m a nut. Or maybe not. You may ask, ” So what is going through your mind? Why would you ever let someone use a flogger on you? ” Impact play of any type can be extremely erotic. Whether you use your hand or a fine leather tool, it creates a whole new atmosphere to your play time. Control, helplessness, pleasurable feelings; impact play takes you to another psychological level. It connects you and your lover in new ways. As you let go and let your lover lover take control, your souls intertwine and become more closely connected.

For us, impact play has brought us closer on an intimate level than we have experienced in eighteen years of marriage. It is utterly amazing to be under his control. The more we play and the longer the sessions, it seems that our spirits intertwine on another level. He understands me more deeply. It is hard to explain in words. I hope this makes some sort of scene.

Impact play, flogging, spanking… all of these pleasures don’t have to be painful. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure. Explore and experiment, starting out slow and gradually increasing; find what is just right for you. No need to leave whelps; a slight tap maybe all it takes to get your juices flowing.

Communication is important. Talk with your lover, share what you desire and be patient. Sometimes, Hubby strikes to hard. At these times I simply say, “no baby” and he knows to be gentler. But, if I ran away at the first tinge we would never learn the ways that are best for us and would loose out on the fun.

But how do you talk, how do you open up on this intimate level? For me watching BDSM pron and making small talk about what is going on, seems to work best. I’m not as nervous and I feel more comfortable sharing what I want to try or like. So for this weekend, think about trying a bit of impact play.

Tell your lover to tap your hot bottom while he pounds away doggie style. Something, anything, just jump in and test the waters.

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