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  1. Jade (@piecesofjade)
    Jade (@piecesofjade) at |

    I’ve never been in a switch relationship, but I can see how protocols would definitely help to define and reinforce those roles, and when the “switch” happens.

    A very enlightening post!

  2. Bedroom Bondage (@BedroomBondage)

    Your article, amongst others, has moved me towards talking with my Sir about bringing some protocols in place. We just haven’t decided what they most be yet..

  3. Marie Rebelle
    Marie Rebelle at |

    Like Jade said: a very enlightening post.

    Thanks so much for sharing how the dynamic is between you, in and out of the bedroom. I find it incredibly interesting that outside the bedroom you put all his needs first and that your religious upbringing is very important to you, but that in the bedroom the two of you are so very free to explore and enjoy in switching roles.

    I really enjoyed reading this post :)

    Rebel xox

  4. ~Mia~
    ~Mia~ at |

    This is just a fabulous post!! It has certainly given me some food for thought on the switching elements in my relationship and how things could be worked differently.

    Thank you so much for sharing!

    ~Mia~ xx

  5. AirenWolf
    AirenWolf at |

    HAH I hear you! I am constantly told I am an abused wife because I allow my husband to make the financial decisions in the house and choose what he wants for dinner. The thing is he gives me so much in return for these concessions that it’s a pleasure not a chore to allow him to be the man!
    If what you do works for you then you are blessed!

  6. Sammi
    Sammi at |

    This is a very interesting post! I like the distinction you make between life protocol and sexual protocol.


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